
From AB:
I'm writing to tell you about an incident that occurred this past Friday morning (7/8/11) on the Orange Line to Vienna around 8:30 a.m.Other items:
I boarded at New Carrollton and sat in one of the "sideways" seats next to an older gentleman. A younger, very small Hispanic girl (I'd say early-mid 20s) sat on the inside seat in the second row of forward facing seats across from where I was sitting. The car was semi-filled with almost a person in each row of seats with each person having an open seat next to them.
I can't recall exactly which stop (it had to have been Cheverly or Deanwood because we were still outdoors), but I noticed a very large African-American male board and make a bee-line for the open seat next to the girl I mentioned.
Something immediately felt "off" to me. There were plenty of other spots that would have been more comfortable. The guy was at least 6'4" and about 220-230lb. Big dude.
I began to subtly keep my eye on the situation. He had shorts on, really short shorts made of loose jersey net material. They were kind of strange.
As the train moved along, he started casually crowding the girl next to him, getting as close as possible. Then, I saw his hand, which was wrapped around his erect penis, which was hanging out of his shorts.
I couldn't believe my eyes. He had his newspaper folded in half to keep it covered but it was hardly covered at all, and I could see everything going on.
He was shifting his eyes around and would then turn his head to the girl with the most disgusting look on his face. He was starting to move his elbow closer to her as she kind of curled up in the corner as he played with himself right there in the seat.
As I said, this girl was tiny, and there was no way she was going to get around him. She had a terrified look on her face, and she was clearly on the verge of tears.
I can only guess why she didn't call out for help or scream or do something. She didn't seem to speak much English, and I guess she didn't know what to do. This all happened pretty quickly.
I was looking around to see if anyone could see.
I sat there for a second in shock trying to think what, if anything, I could do as he continued touching himself.
Then, the girl made eye contact with me, and that was it.
I jumped up and took a step in her direction and said something to the extent of "Do you want to get out of there? Do you want to come sit over in this seat? Let me help you over here."
She practically jumped at me, intensely nodding her head and saying "YES! YES!" She jumped into the forward facing seat next to me and said "thank you" several times.
Meanwhile, the pervert flipped out, cursing at me and insulting me over and over.
As he was screaming at me, I turned to her and asked if she was OK, and she said she was.
I was sure I was about to get pummeled by this dude. Although everyone's attention was now turned to the situation, I was positive he was going to at least take a swing at my face.
But he didn't do anything.
The second the train stopped and the doors opened, he jumped up and ran off the train. This makes me think he's a regular at doing this kind of thing and didn't want to draw additional attention to himself.
I need to mention that I was unaware of the emergency button in the back of each train that calls the operator. A friend told me about those this weekend. Had I known, I am not sure which choice I would have made, but that definitely would have been the safer one and is what I would recommend if anyone else finds themselves in such a potentially dangerous situation.
For whatever it's worth, the pervert had a few days of beard growth. He had a hat on and wore basketball shoes with white tube socks pulled a quarter way up his shin. He got on the Orange Line somewhere around Cheverly or Deanwood and jumped off around Capitol South or Eastern Market.
I think I will at least file a report with Metro police for the sake of making a record of the incident, but I doubt it will do much good.
Stay safe people.
Major track work this weekend (WMATA)
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Dezlboy · 718 weeks ago
I hate rap music.
unsuckdcmetro 92p · 718 weeks ago
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BradK · 718 weeks ago
Don't second guess yourself, you made the right decision, it would have sucked... a lot... if the guy would have taken a swing at you, but I am pretty sure even in retrospect, you would have deemed your actions as worth the risk.
by the way... how do most metro busses have multiple cameras on them, while the trains don't?
Anyone else find that odd?
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justme · 718 weeks ago
Thanks for helping her.
crucible · 718 weeks ago
I take the metro every single (work) day and cannot state with any authority what the number is off hand. What I should be able to do is be comfortable with the fact that I know it's clearly in muliple locations, visibly readable on every train should I ever need it; I cannot say that now to any extent, and that needed to change.
C-
dcn8v · 718 weeks ago
Kara · 718 weeks ago
In a non-emergency that is not a cumbersome process. In an emergency you need something you can remember fast or at least have the info somewhere yo would be looking at.
VeggieTart · 718 weeks ago
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Vicky · 718 weeks ago
I'm a fairly small woman and I had a similar thing happen it me when I lived in NJ - gross man exposing himself and more, etc. It took me a long time to get over. In my situation, the cops caught the man and it went all the way to court where I was told that it was my word against his. He got away with no punishment. I got months of being fearful of being alone in public places. Disgusting.
I think I would have lunged at him and started screaming so that everyone on the car knew clearly what was happening. Gross strangers expose themselves in public places and then disappear into the crowd never having to answer for it. We have to change this.
Good for you for protecting that poor woman.
RGG · 718 weeks ago
Oh...and it's on the Pocket Guides.
Vicky · 718 weeks ago
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dcn8v · 718 weeks ago
How truly terrifying. As a woman who commutes via Metro every day, I'm so grateful to you for speaking up. I've been in a similar situation where another passenger just averted his eyes and ignored it and another passenger only asked me if I was OK after the man had left. It's hard to describe the impact that an act like that has on you. Your intervention may have stopped something even worse from happening.
hrh king friday 13 · 718 weeks ago
Brian · 718 weeks ago
I snapped a picture of the man and called the Transit Police when I got off the train. They didn't care at all. They took my info but never called me for his picture or anything.
And I rode the train with this creep often -- who was a nicely dressed business man. I finally starting warning women not to sit across from him. He switched trains eventually.
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RedLineFail · 718 weeks ago
Unfortunately, there will always be creeps like this guy. Hopefully he is caught before his actions escalate. I hope that whenever possible, Metro riders are able to notice and confront harassment and assault.
beema · 718 weeks ago
It would single him out, embarrass him, call attention to him. If he does take a swing at you, well then, you can call the cops. Plus you will have an awesome story to tell for why you are late to work, and you will look like a hero.
Sam · 718 weeks ago
dcn8v · 718 weeks ago
http://hollabackdc.wordpress.com/
Anony Mouse · 718 weeks ago
Thank you for your bravery during the situation - that must have been scary. Definitely report this guy!
UChaseNME2 · 718 weeks ago
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jkuchen · 718 weeks ago
http://unsuckdcmetro.blogspot.com/2011/03/unsuck-...
In the main text of that post, Inspector Lang had asked for "any more victims" to email at rlang [at] wmata.com -- it wasn't clear if the Inspector was referring to that specific incident or victims of these perverts in general, but it's certain worth sending an email.
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@VeggieTart · 718 weeks ago
I also wonder why (if) nobody else bothered to intervene or at least provide backup for the OP. While she was helping the victim, someone else could have called the train operator or transit police.
bll · 718 weeks ago
I just read this story on NYmag and the writer asked why none of the passengers spoke up while a guy rubbed up against a woman...and this happened on 3 separate occassions. I'm happy to see that DC metro riders are taking notice and making others aware of what's going on when disgusting things like this happen.
Hopefully they'll catch this jackass.
Ted · 718 weeks ago
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But you spoke for and acted in her defense. Kudos to you.
@RyanTee82 · 718 weeks ago
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Kat · 718 weeks ago
Thanks for helping the girl, I think you did a really good job!
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Bonobo · 718 weeks ago
They take the position that concern for the black ego trumps women's safety.
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